Since I was in my third trimester with Oliver, Daddy has been tending to Edward in almost every aspect: night-time wakings, bath, bedtime, mealtime…
Now that I have already given birth, my hands are full. Daddy continues his part with Edward like it has been in the past few months.
There’s no doubt now that he feels more attached and secure with daddy.
When he wakes up from his nap he will get moody and say “daddy-ah, daddy-ah” and same goes at night.
He’s no longer attached to mummy. Should I be happy or sad about this? Haha… I should be happy so that it makes me feel less guilty if I can’t attend to him because I have Oliver to take care of. But can’t help feeling a bit sad too that I can’t give him my all until we get to the point that he doesn’t feel he should get ‘my all’ but rather get from daddy.